Enchanted Paradise Group Frequently Asked Questions

 

These are some of many questions I receive each day from people just like you!

If you can not find the answer to your question here, please feel free to email me.

Mahalo! Mary

 

When is the group meet and greets?

Enchanted Paradise Group holds our meet and greets twice a month and is available to attend every other Saturday from 8:30-10:30 pm ONLY. This gives our guests an opportunity to get to know each other and feel comfortable with one another. On the rare occurrence we might need to reschedule a play date, it will listed on the home page and on the events page. We start the real party by 11:00 PM! This gives our guests enough time to get to the events, even if you get off late from work!

   Do you have food available?

We offer snacks, soda's and ice onsite during all events.

What should we bring with us?

Things to consider bringing with you are; alcohol, a towel, a robe or additional outfits. If it is winter time, you may consider wearing winter clothes and shoes and changing once you arrive. Many people bring a bag with them to put their clothes in since we do not have lockers. Items must be placed in a drawer or closet and off the floor to prevent hazards.

What type of people go to the Enchanted Paradise Group event?

The couples that come to the Enchanted Paradise Group are everyday couples, just like you. Most are middle to upper-middle class couples looking to add some spice to their sex life. Most are married, have families and work normal jobs during the week. Our members are teachers, lawyers, business owners, and about any other profession you can think of. The common thread they have is the desire to meet others in an inviting environment and explore their sexual boundaries.

What is the average age of your members?

Our membership ranges in age from 21 to 57 years of age. Most evenings the average age is early 30's to mid-40's. The women tend to be younger than the men and some theme events draw a little younger group. Our members tend to be in good physical condition and take pride in their appearance.

We are an interracial couple, is that a problem?

Enchanted Paradise Group openly accepts all races. We welcome diversity and never tolerate discrimination. We are a place to open your mind and explore your desires without prejudice.

Do you accept single males?

Yes. We accept single males to balance the group to a 50/50 ratio. The Enchanted Paradise Group only invites single men by invite from the hostess. Most men are given a chance to attend once to see if you and the Enchanted Paradise Group are a good match. We never allow groups of single men at any event. We always keep the number of single men very close to the number of single woman for all events. Enchanted Paradise Group events are not designed for single men that do not understand what the lifestyle is about. Invited single men rates are $100.00, but may be discounted at the discretion of the administrator of the group.

What should we wear to Enchanted Paradise Group events?

You should always dress to impress at Enchanted Paradise Group! Most members will start out in business casual for the men and daring sexy for the women. Fetish wear is also encouraged. Many members will bring lingerie or robes to change into as they become more comfortable. You are welcome to be as daring as you like. No old jeans, logo t-shirts, ball caps or gang wear. Managment or the group administrator has the right to refuse admittance to any member for any reason.

We are new to the lifestyle, what can we expect on our first visit?

It is normal to be nervous on your first visit to a lifestyle group. Your imagination will be going wild as you drive up to the parking lot. On your first visit, you will check in with the hostess, be given an introduction to the members. It is best to expect nothing to happen with others on your first visit. You may or may not find other couples that you have an interest in. For many couples, you will only begin to feel comfortable and meet others after a few visits. This is normal. If you plan on playing together for your first visit and use the group as a place to relax, maybe give each other a massage or play in one of the rooms, you will not be disappointed with your visit. Enchanted Paradise Group provides a hedonistic atmosphere for you to explore your desires. What you make of it is up to you. The sexier and more social you are, the more you will get out of your time at the events.

Do we have to participate in the themes?

No. Well, not usually. We do have a few themes where you must wear Pajamas or something like that to attend, but they are listed as such. Besides, you would not want to miss our sexy members in next to nothing!

What does a membership cost?

Membership prices can be found here. Membership can be paid at the door or online for your first visit via cash or any major credit card. You may purchase a nightly membership or purchase a six (6) month membership and not pay any fees for any events within a six (6) month period, with the exception on the third (3rd) event held within the same month which may be attended at a discounted rate of $25.00 per couple. Auto-payment enrollment for a six (6) month commitment is required for those requesting a payment schedule, otherwise you may pay the total upfront at the events or online. Most new couples will attend with a nightly membership for their first event. This is $60.00 per couple for a regular Saturday evening at the door (or $50.00 online) or $75.00 at the door (or $60.00 online) per couple for a themed event. Discounted rates may be provided by the discretion of the group administrator. Single females who attend as a nightly guest may pay $20.00 at the door (or $10.00 online) or $30.00 for single females for a themed event. Our single female six (6) month memberships are $35.00 per month with auto-payment enrollment for a six (6) month commitment is required for those needing a payment schedule, otherwise you may pay the total upfroont at the events or online. You'll get to enjoy coming to two (2) of our scheduled monthly events at no charge. The third (3rd) party held within the same month may be attended at a discounted rate of $5.00 per single female. Our calendar can be found here.

Are there any additional fees?

Yes and No, although none of our administrators are paid. tipping for the drinks and snacks is appreciated. The only fee's you need to be aware of is the banks institutional fees and the major credit card institutional fees when you register for an event with your credit/debt cards.

How do we become members?

A Enchanted Paradise Group Membership can be purchased at the door or online at any Saturday event via cash or any major credit card. You may also use your paypal account. We ask you either pay for the six month membership in advance up front or you may go on a pay schedule where auto-payment enrollment is required for six months. Please see our administrator about our memberships. Failure to complete the obligated six month membership will incorporate an early release from your obligation and be assessed a terminition fee of $300.00. 

How do I get directions to find you?

Directions to our meet and greets will be sent via email to our invited guests. We are generally located within Waikiki, Oahu, Hawaii vicinity. We are usually close to many restaurants and hotels. 

 

Information about the Lifestyle!

We receive questions every day from people asking us what is a lifestyle club? What is the difference, if any from a swing club?

There is no easy answer and for many people there may be no difference. At the Enchanted Paradise Group events, we see it as a difference in attitude, activities and objectives. We look at sexual exploration as a journey that takes as many different paths as there are types of couples. A typical on-premise swing club is for couples to exchange partners for sex. The environment is generally far from what you would want to see in the daylight and there is generally no place to have quiet conversations.

Enchanted Paradise Group is a group that holds their events in three, four and five star hotels that have beautiful furnishings, comfortable seating areas, state-of-the-art sound system, outdoor hot tubs or pools, private and semi-private play rooms and filled with attractive couples looking to explore their sexual boundaries in a safe, sensual environment. Enchanted Paradise Group prides itself on a no-pressure, drama free environment.

If you are looking to have sex with as many partners as possible, then the Enchanted Paradise Group is probably not for you. Our members take pride in their appearance, typically are well educated, well spoken and are looking more for quality encounters then quantity. For many, an evening with the Enchanted Paradise Group may or may not include sex with others. Many couples enjoy a sexuality charged safe environment to be as open as they dare, while others may just want to watch.

A lifestyle club is a place for you to explore your fantasies. For many couples, this may be as simple as having two or three members of the opposite sex give you a massage while you lay nude in front of an open window. For others, it may take the form of having two women or men at the same time in a sexual encounter. For almost all couples, the journey into the lifestyle enhances their union and makes their relationship stronger. For people outside of this, they will never understand, but once you explore your inner desires with the one you love, you will be in a place few couples have journeyed!

There are so many good resources on the internet for information about the lifestyle. One good source is: sexuality.org. They provide answers to many of the questions new people may have.